Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

Between grief and nothing I will take Grief.

One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not tomake a mess of life.

Thereis no advancement to him who stands trembling because he cannot see the endfrom the beginning.

Don'thate, it's too big a burden to bear.

Greatideas often receive violent opposition from mediocre minds.

If speakingis silver, then listening is gold.

Conflictis inevitable, but combat is optional.

Don'twrestle a pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.

Out ofthe fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

The tormentof human frustration, whatever its immediate cause, is the knowledge that theself is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangled mind’ leaking away in lonely,wasteful self-conflict.